“Don’t be embarrassed by who you are. They’re going to judge you no matter what you do”
You must have seen bad times.
But no one, absolutely no one has the right to judge you until they have stepped into your shoes. Never think that you are the only one in the world facing all possible problems. Everybody is stuck somewhere or the other.
Without our problems our lives will look like a script of a theatre play with no climax and we will end up getting bored. So never regret what you have been through in life. Make it your strength rather than your weakness. Never try to justify your current situation because of what happened in the past. All you need to do is, learn from your bad experiences and move on.
A fat girl can see beauty in her smile and feel confident. All her life she hated herself and looked at those skinny girls with jealousy. Little did she know, she has the most mesmerising smile in the world. And the day that happened, there was no going back for her. She can make it big and much better than most of those hot shot girls in town.
Is a hole in the heart an end or a new beginning to a wonderful journey in life. Well, listen to what Vaibhav has to say and you will never cry over small issues in life. Do not take me wrong here. I am not saying your problems are petty issues. But, all i am trying to say is, there are a lot more reasons to be happy than to be sad. You can take one hiccup in life as an end to everything else going on or you can see it as a challenge and come out of it stronger and better.
Everything in life revolves in a circle. You run after happiness, it will keep coming back to you. You run after negativity, it will never leave your side. So try to see everything good in life, only then you will be able to handle all the negativity that keeps creeping in out of nowhere.
At every phase of life, you will be pulled down, sometimes by people whereas other times by circumstances. No one can decide your limitations. It is you who is the controller of your life. The way you live your life depends on you. You can make it large or you can give up altogether. How you shape your life, is totally your call to take. No one is going to take that decision for you. Always remember, the taste of success is the sweetest when the journey to it is the most painful.
Never regret your pain. Always think, that if you are struggling, God is willing to teach you an important lesson. You are the special one, chosen by God for much important things than everyone else. You have to fight so as to live up to his expectations. Set the standards high and let others reach up to you. Be a role model who others follow.
Enjoy your pain and just say these golden words, “I DON’T CARE”